I am asking our church members to make personal pledges to pay our monthly church note? How reliable is this?

Most churches, at some point in time, will ask for personal pledges to be made by its members; usually for a specific purpose. In general you can count on about 75% of the money to actually come in each month. It may start out higher but usully goes down over time. This is not good strategy for the long haul. Many people stop paying, other move away and this leaves a deficit in the budget.